When do I have to decide about adoption?
You can decide at any point in your pregnancy or after the baby is born. Most birth mothers choose to place their child for adoption before their child is born. If a woman wants, she can also place her child in foster care while she makes the decision. Many have found that making a commitment to adoption before birth makes the placement easier for the birth mother.

How do birth parents feel after placing a child for adoption?
It's normal to experience all kinds of emotions including grief, sadness, and loneliness. These feelings are a healthy part of life—it means you realize that there needs to be healing. Many birth mothers have said that they have peace because they know they made the best decision for themselves and their babies. There are counselors available through the adoption agencies who can help you through the time after you've placed your child with a family.

Will my baby be well taken care of?
Adoption agencies have long waiting lists of couple who are unable to have children and who are ready to love and raise a child. It's estimated that there are at least 15-20 couples waiting for every healthy infant available. Many families are also waiting to adopt babies born with handicaps.